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Harry Bristow
(© David Bristow, UK)
Mr Harry Bristow was born at Shutta, East Looe, Cornwall on 26th April,
1873 the son of John Bristow (a railway labourer) and his wife Mary Ann
1.
Harry was married to Ethel Elliott (born 25th September 1887) and together
they had two children: Vivian John Henry 2 and Philip Harry.
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Ethel Bristow
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Vivian Bristow
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(© David Bristow, UK)
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On 8th April 1912 Harry posted a card to Ethel:
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Southampton Docks 10pm
April 8th 1912.
Dear Love,
Arrived here after a very slow journey at 9.15pm. I'm
stopping at Temperance Hotel.... was very hungry had tea at Waterloo
before departing.....several stopping here for Titanic to sign on
tomorrow morning before 8am.
Much love dearie self and boy. I will try and write a line tomorrow
or Wednesday before sailing.
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8 - APR -12 11 PM
Mrs Bristow,
1 Station Parade,
Shortlands,
Bromley, Kent
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He signed-on to the Titanic, on 9th April, 1912 giving his Shortlands,
Bromley address. The Titanic was his first ship. As a first class
steward he received monthly wages of £3 15s.
The next day he wrote again to Ethel.
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Titanic
Southampton 9-4-12
Dearest Et
I have earned my first days pay on the Titanic
4/- & been paid & I may say spent it do you know dearie. I forgot
about towels, also cloth brush so I've to buy two, the brush I need
tomorrow ..........my uniform will cost £1-17-6, coat plus waistcoat
and cap and Star regulation collars and paper front (don't laugh
dearie it's quite true) two white jackets etc. so it won't leave
me very much to take up, my pay is £3-15 plus tips. I'm in the first
class saloon so I may pick up a bit. I've been scrubbing the floor
today in Saloon, about a dozen of us. I lost myself a time or two,
she is such an enormous size I expect it will take me a couple of
trips before I begin to know my way about here. I believe we're
due back here again about the 4th next month I am not sure though
- but if I can manage it & the tips turn out alright, I shall have
to leave again Sunday night. I shall try and come Saturday night
but I expect I shall have to leave again Sunday night to report
8o/c Monday morning, but of course dearie I'm not sure, its only
what some of the old hands told me..................I haven't had
a talk with Bert Dodds yet...he's what they call 2nd Steward not
1st but very nice I've heard and liked. I've to be aboard tomorrow
morning 6 o/c sharp, means turning out at 5am.........you might
send a letter to me addressed as envelope enclosed a day before
we're expected in so that I could have it directly I come ashore,
now dearie with fondest love to boy and self & be brave as you always
are, your ever loving Harry
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His final letter was written on RMS Titanic notepaper 3
on the evening of 10th April and posted to Ethel from Queenstown the following
day (postmarked Queenstown 3.45pm). In this letter, Harry states that
he is 'scribbling this in bed 11.30pm' and that:
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... I had a table
with two old ladies for lunch, & another table tonight for dinner
but no people, bad luck. I hope I shall get a permanent table tomorrow,
when most of the passengers come aboard or else it will mean nil
for me as tips are concerned........I think about you very much
dearie....fondest love dearie self and boy your ever loving Harry
xx'
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Harry Bristow died in the sinking. His body, if recovered, was never
identified.
Ethel and his children received financial aid from the Lord Mayor's fund.
Several entries were made in the Relief Fund records between 1912 and
1923 but perhaps the most poignant was made in June 1913 when a grant
of £5 was given so that Mrs. Bristow could take her children to the seaside
4.
Ethel, never remarried, she died in 1972.
Notes
1. A the time of the 1881 census Harry was living in East Looe, Cornwall
with his parents, older sisters Harriet and Ellen, younger brother Fred
and three lodgers.
2. Vivian John Henry Bristow was born on 13th August 1910 in Bath, Somerset.
He became an antiquarian bookseller and dealer in manuscripts, trading
as 'Henry Bristow of Ringwood', he died on the 17th June 2000.
3. This letter was sold at auction in March 1999 much to the regret of
family members who sought without success to regain it.
4. Hyslop et al (1997), p.257 list the sum as £25. This is probably
a mistake.
Documents
Particulars of Engagement,
Public Record Office (BT100/259)
Workmens Compensation Act 1906 - Award to Ethel Elliott Bristow (1,
2, 3)
References
British Census 1881
Agreement and Account of Crew (PRO London, BT100/259)
Donald Hyslop, Alastair Forsyth and Sheila Jemima (1997) Titanic Voices: Memories
from the Fateful Voyage, Sutton Publishing, Southampton City Council. ISBN
0 7509 1436 X
Mansion House Titanic Relief Fund Booklets and Minute Books
United States Senate, Washington 1912. n° 806, Crew List
Contributors
David Bristow, UK
Steve Coombes, UK
Chris Dohany, USA
Brian Ticehurst, UK
Bill Wormstedt, USA
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Titanic Passenger and Crew Summary
Name: Mr Harry Bristow
Born: Saturday 26th April 1873
Age: 33 years
Marital Status: Married.
Occupation: Saloon Steward
Victualling Crew
First Embarked: Southampton
Died in the Titanic disaster (15th April 1912).
Body Not Recovered
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