Hi, Diane!
It wasn't anything that had occurred to me either, until I heard Don Lynch mention it in his JC's Titanic commentary.
Sometimes I think we attach too much of a one-size-fits-all way of thinking to what people were, or were not, allowed to do in 1912. Even in 1912, people were people (understatement) and they'd find a way to do pretty much whatever they wanted. They were just a little more orderly about it, that's all.
Roy