Teri,
Please....If you understood anything about reincarnation, you'd know that the carry-over of past-life memories is subconscious and is generally only stimulated through "regression." You act as if you consider yourself to BE Bruce Ismay now. You are not. And if you once WERE Ismay, you would still not be able to sit around and tell HIS story as though it happened to you in your present life.
You seem either very young or very shallow, or worse very confused, not to realize how ludicrous this all sounds.
As for Oldham, he was an historian, who like many of us here are serious researchers and not mere enthusiasts; therefore he has more credibility in one syllable of text, drawn from documented archival sources,than you could muster in any of your supposed past-life memories.
I do feel very sorrow for you.
God Bless,
Randy