It appears Jeanette Lyman and Jailey Lydia Secrist are the same person. Between the 1860 and 1870, William H Romine appears to have died and before the 1870 US Census was taken, she remarried Joshua Secrist. This can be confirmed by checking the US Census for 1850 and 1860 in Kentucky and 1870 census in Ohio.
I just got off the phone with a woman who verified this. He isn't buried in Anderson Cemetary. He's buried in Maplewood Cemetery in Anderson, IN. I have a section number and plot number to prove.Would explain why I didn't find him the last time I was in Indiana, I went to the wrong cemetary!!