Hi James,
Sure you're quite right. Judging by the following article taken from the biography available on E.T, Ruth Becker didn't seem to get into lifeboat #11 but lifeboat #13. Good work.
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While the boats were loaded a steward placed Richard and Marion in one of the boats (#11), and then said "Well that's all for this boat!", at which Nellie pleaded to be allowed in as well, saying "Please let me in this boat! Those are my children!" She was allowed in but Ruth was left on the Titanic, at which point Nellie screamed "Ruth! Get in another boat!!". She eventually got into Lifeboat 13.
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Dear Karen, it could be very nice to see the photo of Sidney James Humphreys you're speaking about. A photograph is available on his biography published by E.T. I do believe it's not the same, isn't it ?
You'd better contact Phillip Hind if you plan to add a photo on E.T. Or see the biography and click on "add".
Very best regards,
Franck