The initial list to starboard was prior to the launching of lifeboats, so had no impact on that activity. Later, the ship listed to port. QM Rowe gives a good account of the difficulty getting a starboard side boat to slide over the rivet heads in the steel plating.
The problem of friction, whether rivet heads or other projections, can be solved with skids (and even skates) that are temporarily attached to the boats only while they are being lowered. This has never been a particularly successful solution for any but minor lists.
On many cargo ships there is only one fully-enclosed lifeboat that rides on wheels in a track. The track is a hill worthy of any amusement park roller-coaster. It goes directly over the stern. No matter which way the ship rolls, this type of lifeboat can be launched. It comes down the track like a roller-coaster car and goes airborne before plunging beneath the surface of the water. Those who have tried say you ain't done nothin' until you'd done this type of abandon ship drill.
Back to Titanic...the list to port meant that boats on the port side were swinging away from the ship. If the davits were cranked all the way out, there could have been a sizeable gap between the deck and the boat gun'l. This may explain the lower numbers of people loaded on the port side. Any gap would have appeared huge in the darkness of a slanting deck. This would be doubly true for women who were encumbered by the long dresses of the period. Rather than attempt such a frightening step over a 60-foot deep chasm, I'm sure many people decided to try the starboard side where the boats nestled against the side of the ship.
This may also explain the difference in
Lightoller's attitude toward men in the boats and Murdoch's. On the starboard side there would have been a healthy mix of sexes. On the port, the mix could might well have been overweighted on the male side.
Lightoller may have assessed the situation in terms that if he started allowing more men in the boats, he would have had an uncontrollable rush.
--David G. Brown