David,
I understand that you are frustrated by many things that are said about Titanic, but do you really think that your approach is working? How much satisfaction are you deriving from the debate? Are you educating those who don't have your experience?
For the life of me, I can't think of any area concerning the Titanic story where you and I have fundamental differences. Yet you seem to have a special place in your heart for me, and are quick to denigrate my character at every turn. Why is that, I sometimes wonder? If there's something factual about the story that I have wrong, why don't you explain it to me and leave my experience (which you obviously have no respect for) out of it? You seem to have plenty of time to tell me that I don't know anything...allow me to save you some time. Instead of wasting your breath with yet another litany about how I'm a nobody, why don't you use that time instead to educate me (although, again, I can't remember where we have actually differed on points of fact).
My first post of the day was a call for more respect and civility in these conversations by all involved. I didn't even touch on the subject matter of this thread. You then proceeded to provide an excellent example of just what I was talking about...without any real point to debate, you instead launched into a withering personal attack. I should thank you for following my call for civility with a premium example of why such a call was warranted.
It has been speculated by others that you see me as a convenient outlet for your frustrations concerning James Cameron. In this scenario, it doesn't really matter what I say, you will always see red whenever my name appears in the forum. Whether or not that speculation is true, the fact of the matter is that I have my opinions, you have your opinions, and this forum is a place to discuss a multitude of opinions. If you think that something I am saying is wrong, then provide an example that will prove me so. I'm man enough to have my assertions stand up to even the most critical analysis, and if I'm wrong, then I'll change accordingly. But to say "I know because of who I am and you don't know because of who you are" has no merit and does nothing to help others who join the debate to learn.
David, I am very well aware that, for whatever reason, you don't like me. I don't need you to like me. Personally, I find from your words that you know almost nothing about me at all, so I conclude from that that you have this intense dislike for a myth that you call Parks. For that reason, I don't dislike you. How could I? We've never met. I do wish, though, for the sake of the other participants in this forum who are trying to learn about Titanic, that you would cease these unrelenting personal attacks...they are a waste of my time, your time, and bandwidth that could be used for more worthwhile discussion.
You are smart and experienced. If you encounter people who refuse to understand the basics of your profession, can't you persuade with examples drawn from your experience? If you can't, then all of your years at sea aren't of much help to anyone here, are they?
Parks