David - I dont know the answer to that question but the following might help you:
COLLETT, MR. STUART. Saved in Lifeboat number 9. Booking Agent:- Mr. Boulton, Upper Holloway, Road, London, N. UK.
Died 8th May 1941. Is buried in the cemetery at Hendon, London. There is no known stone.
(Death Notice from The Times May 10th 1941)
Collett. - On May 6, 1941. Sidney Collett beloved husband of Ruth Collett passed peacefully away. Memorial service at Talbot Tabernacle. Bayswater. London. May 13 at 2.30. Interment Hendon Cemetery at 3.30. (Foreign papers, please copy).
(From The Emergency and Relief booklet by the American Red Cross, 1913).
No. 81 (English). Theological student, 25 years of age, coming to finish his studies, lost his books and baggage and suffered from exposure. He is obliged to work his way through school. ($300).
Marconigram sent 18th April 1912 to: Boultons, Upper Holloway, London. ''Inform friends safe
Carpathia, arrange Baggage insurance. - Collett.''
Marconigram sent 18th April 1912 to: Collett, Baptist Parsonage, Port Byron New York. ''Safe Carpathia. - Sidney''.
Marconigram sent 18th April 1912 to: Cook, William Jewell College Liberty, Missouri. ''Safe Carpathia. - Collett.''
(From The Reading Observer, 20th April, 1912, page 5).
Inquiries made at the local shipping offices by a Reading Observer' representative elicited the fact that there were no Reading people among the passengers. Several local residents had friends and relatives on board. Mr. Stuart Collett, nephew of Mrs. Thomas Huntley, of London Road, Reading, was travelling by the ill-fated vessel to join his parents at Port Byron. Miss Marion Wright, daughter of Mr. Wright, of Yeovil, who formerly lived in College Road, Reading, was on her way to New York to be married.
The names of Miss Marion Wright and Mr. Stuart Collett appear in the list of survivors.
(From Guernsey Evening Press, April/May 1912)
Boy Preacher from Cobo, Guernsey.
Uncle Mr. D. Nicolle, Gele, of Castel, Guernsey.
Going to c/o M. E. Collett, Port Byron, New York, USA.
Booking Agent Mr. Boulton, Upper Holloway Road, London.
Mr. Stuart Collett.
Mr. Stuart Collett, the Boy Preacher who conducted a mission at Cobo some time ago, was among the survivors. A telegram announcing his safety was received by his uncle in London, and copy of it was transmitted to Mr. D. Nicolle, Gele, Castel, Guernsey.
16th April 1912.
(From The East Kent Gazette, Saturday May 4th, 1912).
A CANADIAN REFERENCE
A reference to Miss Buss is made in the Toronto Daily Star of April 20th, as the following extract will show:-
''Special to the 'Star' by a staff reporter - New York, April 20th - What happened at the regular Sunday service on board the Titanic on the day of the ship's doom? Many have asked that question, but the answer is only now being supplied, and the man who tell of it is a young theological student by the name of Stuart Collett, from North London. On the fateful day he assisted the Rev. Mr. Carter, also of London, in a hymnal and prayer service on the Titanic. At this service Miss Wright played the piano and sang three solos, which were ''There is a Green Hill far away'', ''For Those in Peril on the Sea'' and ''Lead, Kindly Light'', after which the Rev. Carter prayed.
There were 35 at the service, and after the prayer they sang ''Now the Day is Ended''. Shortly after they felt the crash of the ship against the berg and scrambled to the decks to find the crew manning the lifeboats.
''Young Collett, said he assisted Miss Wright and Miss Buss to the lifeboat and after explaining to the crew about to man it that the young women had been entrusted to his care, he was allowed to enter the lifeboat with them.
''When Collett met his brother here the first thing he did was to take a small Oxford bible from his pocket and hand it to his brother. It was given to him by his brother when they last parted, with the admonition that he hand it back next time they met.