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Susan Leighton
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Mark,
I cruise this board nearly daily and have been a member for several years. I post on topics and threads where I think I might have something to contribute OR where I think I might learn something. I am going to say something here that you may not like, and I hope you will view it as constructive. You are aggressive in many of your posts in a multitude of threads on this board. You are prone to 'shoot from the hip', and then 'backpeddle' and claim to 'be misunderstood'. You say things like ‘don't do this’, or ‘don't do that [to me]’ and follow with’ ‘I will not tolerate that’. You are not a Moderator, and those are the folks on this site who get to use those kinds of words. The members here don't take too kindly to that kind of aggression. And posting your credentials each time you feel challenged, only diminishes your credibility. I wish you could see that. It comes across as defensive and arrogant, and you should know that privately, you are building a reputation for yourself that may not be as favorable as you would like.
I urge you try to tone down your responses. Stop apologizing for real or imagined misunderstandings. Perhaps take a moment to realize where these people are coming from before becoming so defensive about perceived character assassinations. From my perspective, many of the board members have been quite patient with you, and you have been given much latitude. I speak genuinely as I say this, Mark, that if you don't take heed and tone down the discussions, I fear you will be in for a disappointment, because people will stop responding to you...and you will find that you are an island unto yourself.
I cruise this board nearly daily and have been a member for several years. I post on topics and threads where I think I might have something to contribute OR where I think I might learn something. I am going to say something here that you may not like, and I hope you will view it as constructive. You are aggressive in many of your posts in a multitude of threads on this board. You are prone to 'shoot from the hip', and then 'backpeddle' and claim to 'be misunderstood'. You say things like ‘don't do this’, or ‘don't do that [to me]’ and follow with’ ‘I will not tolerate that’. You are not a Moderator, and those are the folks on this site who get to use those kinds of words. The members here don't take too kindly to that kind of aggression. And posting your credentials each time you feel challenged, only diminishes your credibility. I wish you could see that. It comes across as defensive and arrogant, and you should know that privately, you are building a reputation for yourself that may not be as favorable as you would like.
I urge you try to tone down your responses. Stop apologizing for real or imagined misunderstandings. Perhaps take a moment to realize where these people are coming from before becoming so defensive about perceived character assassinations. From my perspective, many of the board members have been quite patient with you, and you have been given much latitude. I speak genuinely as I say this, Mark, that if you don't take heed and tone down the discussions, I fear you will be in for a disappointment, because people will stop responding to you...and you will find that you are an island unto yourself.