Sounds like similar circumstances indeed, Ben. Marshall's mother, a Brines from Westerly, R.I. died, as you know when Marshall was an infant. His father, William Drew, was a stonecarver from Greenport, L.I. and would come to Westerly for the local blue granite quarries. There is still a good bit of William and his brother James' work in Westerly cemeteries. The carved lily and rose motifs are the most easily recognizable. There is an enormous Celtic cross on the Brines plot. Oddly enough, Marshall's mother's ashes are not there but buried beneath a plain granite urn, right beside Marshall's ashes far away from the Brines. His father William Drew and his other spouse are very nearby. The stone for Marshall bears his own German fractur signature, is of the famous blue granite, and bears his desired epitaph, "Teacher, Artist, Friend" and at the very bottom, a silhouette of the Titanic with "Survivor, RMS Titanic"- just as he wanted. TIS erected the memorial two years after his death. Marshall was very close to his Civil War vet Uncle Henry Christian, but Uncle Henry had his hands full trying to help raise an active boy, and so William's brother James Vivian Drew and his wife, who had lost their baby son, took Marshall. Marshall adored his Aunt Lou, that's for sure. She married a Richard Opie, and the pair settled in Dunns Corners, a part of Westerly. Lou died in Watch Hill Nursing Home and is buried with Mr. Opie in Oak Grove Cemetery in Ashaway, RI. The cenotaph to James is the reverse side of the Opie stone and is beautifully carved with lilies and roses by brother William.
Nice to remember Marshall today- the anniversary of his death was just June 6th. Hard to believe 22 years have gone by since his passing. He was a remarkable and unforgettable man. I know he would be delighted to be portrayed in fiction. He so enjoyed visiting local schools and meeting youngsters who asked eager questions about the ship. They were enchanted he was about their age aboard. Those were happy days and good memories!