IMO, the best way any of us can judge Ismay is by asking ourselves what each one of us would have done had we been in his position that night and coming up with an honest, heartfelt answer just within ourselves. I did just that and found that had I been the chairman of White Star and found myself in Ismay's position just before 02:00 am on the night of Monday 15th April 1912, I would almost certainly have done the same thing that he did - ie enter Collapsible C. I do have a strong sense of self-preservation and while I would never have deprived someone else of a place in a lifeboat just to get myself in, I would also be on the lookout for a likely opportunity to save myself. I believe that was exactly what Ismay did that night; contrary to some silly reports, he did not force or bluster his way into any lifeboat. As far as is known, he helped to load Collapsible C, waited till it was about to be lowered and when there were no other women or children coming forth, entered the lifeboat himself. Even then, I believe the boat was not absolutely full to capacity when it was lowered (please correct me if I'm wrong) and so Ismay cannot be blamed for his actions.
Of course, if there are people in these forums who can touch their hearts and swear that they would NOT have entered that boat had they been in Ismay's position, I'll accept it....if they can really accept it themselves.
I wouldn't disagree with any of that. Good post.
It's time for the ridiculous, moustache twirling, cartoon villain depiction of Ismay to end.
I would recommend that people read the late Michael Davie's chapter on J. Bruce Ismay in his greatly underappreciated book "Titanic: Life and Death of a Legend". It's the strongest "defence", if one wants to call it that, written about Ismay and his actions since 1912.
Davie demonstrated that Ismay's upbringing by a rather cold, stern, reproving, father resulted in the younger Ismay developing into rather a shy, sensitive, somewhat nervous man who did not like being "in the spotlight", only had a few close friends and who took criticism very personally. And this was all before the events of April 14/15th 1912.
Davie's research's reveal that Ismay was actually a generous philanthropist for many years (both before and after the Titanic disaster) particularly with regard to maritime charities. And was described by the few who did manage to befriend him as having been behind closed doors an exceptionally intelligent, articulate, kind, rather sentimental, warm hearted man
but who wasn't able to show this side of his character in public.
On a lighter note, a wee bit of trivia is that Ismay was also regarded as a first rate shot, a keen fly fisherman and as a youth a talented soccer and field hockey player !
I have to take great exception to Wynn Craig Wade's completely inaccurate description of Ismay in the well known A&E documentaries of the early 1990s.
Wade describes Ismay as being some kind of bombastic, haughty, caricature English upper class toff who didn't like Americans and vice versa. As we see above, that simply wasn't true and if Ismay didn't like Americans (and they didn't like him) then why on earth did he marry an American woman and his ships prove so popular with the American social elite ? Wade clearly did not do his research on Ismay properly.
Now on the point of how much room was left in Collapsible C, IIRC it was almost full, there was room for about only three or four more adults.
The only thing about Ismay's escape that raises eyebrows today is that he was adamant the deck nearby was almost deserted when C was launched.
However, overwhelming testimony from other survivors who were either in that boat or on deck nearby during that time prove the opposite was true. The place was heaving.
As C began it's descent, there was still a large crowd nearby, a panic had broken out and Murdoch had to fire his revolver to keep order.
Dr Paul Lee has written an exhaustive (and crucially, even handed) article on the subject of Ismay's escape on his website which I would recommend.