Some years ago we relaxed the real name rule but we are bringing it back.
I feel that in trying to create a community where we can trust as well as get to know each other pseudonyms are proving to be a major block. They also serve to embolden a small minority to post with, less restraint than they otherwise might.
Therefore, if you are not already doing so please post using your real name from now on. You can amend your profile here
I realise there may be some circumstances where a real name is genuinely not appropriate and in those please message me directly and we can consider an exception.