Just popping back in to give the link where I covered this some years ago.
Were Lightoller's actions logical?
Lighgtoller was a first class seaman and Extra Master. However it was his seamanship abilities he was using when loading boats and he tells everyone his thought process in that quote you refer to, Jude. I remind you:
" in addition, the strain is almost too much to expect of boats and falls under ordinary conditions....."
In addition to the normal strain, the method of lowering- 'surging'- ensured that there would be sudden stops which imposed a shock load into the falls. Such a shock load if heavy enough - would break a manila rope fall. In other words, it was good seamanship to lower the boat to the water safely loaded then fully load it at sea level if conditions permitted.
Keep in mind that up until the advent of these super liners, boats were normally lowered little more than 40 feet from any ship.
As for the logic in loading?
At the time of loading,
Titanic was a 'tender' ship. This means that her center of gravity was too high due to the load of people above her normal center of gravity. A 'tender' ship will list very easily, even if a small weight is moved from one side to the other. Some of you may remember that Wilde ordered people from the port side to the starboard side. Here is a possible reason why.
Lifeboats were first launched from the starboard side - boat Nos 7, 5 & 3.
This would cause a slight list to port, so when No3 was launched - No.8 on the port side was also launched. This seems to have levelled things up. Then No1 and No.8 were launched - one from each side.
After that, four boats were launched on the port side - none on the starboard side. To compensate, four boats were then loaded and launched from the starboard side.
The last three lifeboats were launched from the port side.
If you look carefully, you can see the pattern of attempting to keep the ship upright while lowering and loading. There was nothing random about the process.
After the last starboard side boat is launched, there is no signs of Murdoch or Lightoller until the last two lifeboats are launched from the port side.
At all times, Lightoller conducted himself in a seamanlike manner.
Whether modernist like it or not - back then and right up until the enlightened 60's UK women were normally considered the "the fair (but helpless) sex. Children were the future. The "women and children first" idea was first established at sea 60 years, one month, and two weeks before the
Titanic disaster.
As for the concept of women and children first? I suggest everyone reads the stories of two ships - the HMS 'Birkenhead' and the SS ' La Bourgogne'. the latter story was in the public domain less than a year before Lightoller sat for, and passed, his Master mariner (FG) Certificate. At that time that story would have been most recent in the minds of men like Lightoller, Murdoch, Wilde and Smith.