Harland Duzen
Member
I don't know how to phase the answer, but when the ship was sinking, the Boat Deck and the lowering of boats was divided into two sides with 1st Officer Murdoch taking charge of boats on the Starboard Side while 2nd Officer Lightoller took charge of the boats on the Port side.
Murdoch followed "Women and Children First" which meant once all women and children nearby had got on board, he would allow any men nearby to step in.
Lightoller meanwhile mostly followed "Women and Children Only" which meant that once all women and children nearby had got on board he would lower the boat despite men being nearby.
Hope the above makes sense, and their were exceptions made to these rules.
Murdoch followed "Women and Children First" which meant once all women and children nearby had got on board, he would allow any men nearby to step in.
Lightoller meanwhile mostly followed "Women and Children Only" which meant that once all women and children nearby had got on board he would lower the boat despite men being nearby.
Hope the above makes sense, and their were exceptions made to these rules.