Miss Barbara Joyce West was born in Bournemouth, England on 24 May 1911.
She was the daughter of Edwy Arthur West (b. 1875), a department store floorwalker, and Ada Mary Worth (b. 1879), both natives of Cornwall who had married on 12 September 1905. She had an elder sister, Constance Miriam (b. 1907). Just prior to her birth her parents and sibling were listed on the 1911 census living at Livadia, 79 Paisley Road, Stourwood, Bournemouth.
Deciding to strike out for a new life in America decisions were made by the family to travel to Gainesville, Florida and begin a fruit culture business. They purchased ticket number 34651, which cost £27, 15s, and they embarked Titanic at Southampton on 10 April 1912 as second class passengers. Whilst aboard it appears they became acquainted with Clear Cameron and Nellie Wallcroft.
Mrs West later recalled the events of the night of the sinking:
'We were all asleep when the collision took place, but were only jolted in our berths - my husband and children not even being awakened, and it was only the hurrying of passengers outside the cabin that caused alarm. The steward bade us all get up and dress thoroughly with plenty of warm things. Arthur placed lifebelts upon the children and then carried them to the boat deck. I followed carrying my handbag. After seeing us safely into the lifeboat Arthur returned to the cabin for a thermos of hot milk, and, finding the lifeboat let down he reached it by means of a rope, gave the flask to me, and, with a farewell, returned to the deck of the ship.'
With a new life in America now out of the question Barbara, her mother and sister returned to England aboard Celtic. They settled in Truro, Cornwall and in September 1912 Barbara was gifted with a sister, Edwyna Joan.
Barbara and her sisters' education up to the age of 12 was by the Worshipful Company of Drapers and she attended their boarding school in Purley, Surrey. She went on to Truro girls' high school and St Luke's College, Exeter, where she took a teacher training course in physical education and geography. She then became a governess to a Cornish family and moved with them to Spain, a country much to her liking and of which she would maintain a lifelong love. The outbreak of the Spanish Civil War in 1936 saw her return to England but she was able to find employment as a teacher in Guildford high school in Surrey.
Barbara's first marriage was in 1937 and she wed in Truro to Stanley Winder (b. 1894), a rugby-playing Mancunian; the couple settled in Surrey but the marriage produced no children and Winder died in 1950 following a heart attack aged 56. She remarried two years later to William Ernest Barrell Dainton (b. 28 July 1896), a native of Folkestone, Kent and known to all as "Dee"; the pair were avid rugby followers and often visited matches at Twickenham and both drove vintage rovers, named affectionately Stella and Vanessa.
Barbara returned to Cornwall and taught in her old school in Truro in the early 1950s before becoming deputy head of physical education at a school in Plymstock for two decades. Known as a kind and devoted teacher up until her retirement in 1972, she was remembered to have had a penchant for bright lipstick and proper English speech and grammar.
Following retirement Barbara and her husband resettled in Truro and were regular attendees at Truro Cathedral where her father was commemorated. She would continue to give tours of the cathedral and was committed to other voluntary work well into her advanced years. She became a widow a second time when her husband Dee died in 1990.
Barbara never cared to discuss the Titanic and rejected all offers from newspapers, television and other media that desired to speak to her, something that intensified around the time of the release of the James Cameron movie Titanic in 1997. Her friends and family guarded her privacy and she was quoted as saying "I want nothing to do with the Titanic people!" Despite her reservations however she did maintain a modest level of contact with the British Titanic Society who also respected her desire for privacy.
Barbara spent the last years of her life in a nursing home in Camborne, Cornwall and she died there on 16 October 2007 aged 96; her funeral was conducted at Truro Cathedral on 5 November that year. As per Barbara's wishes, so as to avoid any unwanted public attention, her death was not made public until days after her funeral. She was cremated at Penmount Crematorium, Truro, Cornwall, England, and her ashes were scattered in the garden of rest (garden R, HB22) where there is a memorial plaque.
Barbara was the penultimate living Titanic survivor and the last living Titanic passenger of Cornish descent. Her death left Millvina Dean as the only living Titanic survivor.
Hi, Isint it Barbara West Dainton's birthday today? She turns 91. Happy Birthday How is she by the way, anyone with updates? Thanks, Andrew Maheux
It does indeed appear to be Barbara (West) Dainton's 91st birthday today, according to the copy of her birth certificate as an ET document. Her ET biography seems to be in error in this respect. Her present address may be in Truro rather than in Plymouth. If this is confirmed, then her biography also needs to be updated to take account of this. I hope she remains in good health, and I add my best wishes. I knew her sister (Constance Miriam) when I was at junior school in the 1940s.
Of the three remaining survivors, Milvena Dean has spoken many times about Titanic, Lillian Asplund has spoken with some TI people about the sinking- but what about Barbara West? Has she given interviews? Does she remeber the sinking? regards Tarn Stephanos
Tarn, Ms. West was only a year older than Millvina, so she would not have remembered the voyage, very well. I think she might have sent a note to some in BTS, but has never, to my knowledge, discussed Titanic; nor does she wish to.
Hi- I know Barbara West hasn't/ does not wish to discuss the Titanic, but are there any photos of her around? Either from the time of the disaster or more recent. I've always been a little curious as to what she looks like. Darren
I am not aware of any photo of Barbara (West) Dainton being available. It is unfortunate being that she is one of the few survivors still alive today. I knew her elder sister, Miriam, for a few years back in the late 1940s.
Her photo was published in the British Titanic Society's Atlantic Daily Bulletin a couple of years ago. Maybe Brian Ticehurst could get you a copy of that back issue.
HELP! arrives much email to me with a the death from Mrs. West, somebody can confirm it?
Mauro, Brian T. would have any news about this. If he does not confirm this, then I will presume it is not true.
If it is what me supuce what happens is that they arrived but from 20 email confirming this bad news to me Thank you very much
Rumours of Barbara West Dainton's passing have been "exaggetated" on several occasions to put a polite spiun on it. Unless you hear it from a reliable source with confirmation, I wouldn't believe it. Especially if it comes in by way of e-mail.
I wonder why people feel the need to start a rumour that someone has died anyway. Mrs. Dainton is 95 years old so its not going to be a shock when she does pass away. However, until this lady does, people should have more respect for the living.
I think the story originated from careless media reports. Millvina Dean has sometimes been referred to as the last survivor, implying that Barbara West had died. Much the same happened when Lillian Asplund died. She was called the last survivor when she was only the last American survivor.
Here's the passage in question, from the BBC no less! "Millvina Dean, the last British survivor of the disaster which killed more than 1,500 people, spoke out after a BBC television programme discovered a porthole from the boat for sale for 20,000 pounds (30,000 euros, 38,000 dollars)." "Boat" to boot!
Well for some reason the media in England has been saying that Millvina is the last British Titanic survivor for years now so I don't think this is where this new rumour has started.