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Ellen Mary Barber

Ellen Barber

Ellen Mary "Nellie"  Barber, was born in Penshurst, Tonbridge, Kent, England on 31 August 1885.

She was the eldest child of house carpenter William Hopkins Barber (1859-1935) and the former Fanny Izzard (b. 1859), both natives of Penshurst who had married in 1884.

One of just two children born to her parents, her only sibling was her sister Edith Emily1 (b. 1888).

Nellie and her family appear on the 1891 census living at The Warren in Penshurst. At the time of the 1901 census the family address is The Square in Penshurst and a 15-year-old Nellie has no stated profession. Forwarding to 1911 the family home was still The Square but Nellie was not listed with her parents; instead, she was listed at the home of Mr and Mrs Tyrell William Cavendish at Little Onn Hall in Church Eaton, Stafford; they had an entourage of servants and Nellie was described as a domestic ladies maid. 

Having worked for Mrs Cavendish for at least a year and being no stranger to Atlantic travel, Miss Barber and Mrs Cavendish were shown entering the USA via New York on 25 January 1911 aboard the Oceanic

Nellie boarded the Titanic at Southampton and was travelling with Mr and Mrs Cavendish on their ticket (ticket number 19877 which cost £78, 17s); their destination was to Orienta Point in Mamaroneck, New York, the home of Mrs Cavendish's father Henry Siegel.

Mrs Cavendish and Miss Barber were rescued in lifeboat 6. She sent a Marconigram to her parents' address; it was transmitted at 9.40 pm, probably on 18 April 1912:

Mrs Barber Penshurst nr Tonbridge Kent England

Upon landing in New York aboard the Carpathia Nellie stated her closest relative as her father of The Square in Penshurst. She and her employer returned to England but she was soon to brave the seas again.

On 10 July 1912 Nellie arrived in New York aboard the Kronprinz Wilhelm with Mrs Cavendish and her children; they were travelling to the latter's father's home in Mamaroneck. Nellie then specified her closest relative as her mother back in Penshurst, Kent and she was described as standing at 5'8" and with brown hair and eyes and a fair complexion. 

How long Nellie remained in the employment of Mrs Cavendish is not clear; she remained unmarried and later retired to London, her last address being recorded as 18 Victoria Rise, Wandsworth where she lived with her sister Edith.  In 1939 she was listed as a dressmaker.

Nellie Barber died in London's South Western Hospital on 2 May 1963. Her death came just four months after that of Mrs Cavendish, who had passed away on 16 January.  She was cremated on the 6th May 1963 at Streatham Park Cemetery & Crematorium Lambeth, London and her ashes were scattered in the main garden at the crematorium in grid Ref K43.

Her estate, worth £436, 18s, was administered to her aunt Blanche Constable2 on 16 July 1963.


  1. Edith Emily Barber was born in Chiddingstone in 1888. Having never married, when she died on 9 July 1952 she left her estate valued at £1114, 5s to her sister Ellen Mary Barber.
  2. Blanche Constable (née Izzard, 1877-1967) was her mother's younger sister.

Titanic Passenger Summary

Name: Miss Ellen Mary Barber
Age: 26 years 7 months and 15 days (Female)
Nationality: English
Marital Status: Single
Embarked: Southampton on Wednesday 10th April 1912
Ticket No. 19877, £78 17s
Rescued (boat 6)  
Disembarked Carpathia: New York City on Thursday 18th April 1912
Died: Thursday 2nd May 1963 aged 77 years
Ashes Scattered: Streatham Park Cemetery, Lambeth, London, England

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References and Sources

1939 Register
General Register Office, Index of Births, Marriages and Deaths
British Census 1891-1911
Contract Ticket List, White Star Line 1912 (National Archives, New York; NRAN-21-SDNYCIVCAS-55[279])
List or Manifest of Alien Passengers for the United States Immigration Officer At Port Of Arrival (Date: 18th-19th June 1912, Ship: Carpathia) - National Archives, NWCTB 85 T715 Vol 4183
Craig Stringer (2003) Titanic People (CDROM)
England & Wales, National Probate Calendar (Index of Wills and Administrations), 1858-1966
John Booth & Sean Coughlan (1993) Titanic Signals of Disaster. White Star Publicatons, Westbury, Wiltshire. ISBN 0 9518190 1 1
Kent and Sussex Courier, 26 April 1912, Penshurst Girl Saved From The Titanic


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Leicester Square, Penshurst, Kent. Homeplace of Nellie Barber
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