Harry James Smither was born on 13 November 1889 in Kilburn, Middlesex, England.
He was the son of Harry James Smither (1857-1930), a police constable, and Louisa Bergin (1857-1930). His father originated in Hampshire and his mother in Paddington, London and they had married in Hampshire in 1882.
Harry was one of six children, his siblings being: Archibald (1883-1950), Gertrude (1884-1963), Elizabeth (b. 1887), Maud (b. 1892) and Clara (b. 1894).
He first appears on the 1891 census and at that time he and his family were living at 7 Dennington (?) Park Road, Hampstead, London. When he was enrolled as a pupil to the Netherwood Street School on 1 July 1897 the family address was 20 St George's Road.
The Smither family would be listed as living at 2 St George's Road, Hampstead at the time of the 1901 census when young Harry was still listed as a schoolboy. When the 1911 census was conducted Harry and his family were listed at 1 St Bernard, Ashtree Road, Bitterne Park, Southampton; Harry was then described as a stoker at a stationary engine.
Harry was married in Southampton in late-1911 to Daisy Farmer (b. 1894 in Eastleigh, Hampshire) and they had a daughter named Louisa Mary shortly after.
When Harry signed on to the Titanic, in Southampton on 6 April 1912, he gave his address as 1 Ashtree Road, Southampton. His previous ship had been the Oceanic and as a fireman he could expect to earn monthly wages of £6.
Harry Smither died in the sinking and his body, if recovered, was never identified.
His widow Daisy was remarried in 1914 to Walter Edmond George Whitlock (1891-1973) and had three more children, Harold, George and Bessie. She died in 1917 aged 23.
What became Harry's daughter Louisa remains uncertain.
Harry is remembered on the family headstone in Old Common cemetery Southampton, section F191, plot 185. The headstone is in a bad state of repair.